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6..7.. is not enough

  6-7.. If you have a school age kid, you have been inundated with "6-7."  What is that? Long story short, it is part of lyrics from a song that talks about a basketball player whose height is 6'7. So kids just repeat it. When the score of a game is 6-7, you're going to hear the kids shout it. In the classroom while doing math homework, if the answer has 6 and 7 next to each other, you will hear it. So, who cares?  I heard the numbers mentioned in an entirely different way. I was listening to a podcast which featured Pastor Jonathan Pokluda. Pokluda is an evangelistic pastor who speaks primarily to the younger generation. He has been in the hospital battling an unknown illness. And he is still speaking the Gospel for those who want to listen. Here's a link to his interview:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tv5v8-QRqjM&pp=ygUlamVzdXMgcGVvcGxlIHBvZGNhc3QgSk9uYXRoYW4gUG9rbHVkYQ%3D%3D In the podcast, he gave a great example of how to ask someone if they are eterna...

Perspective: Bleh! Too Many People!

As a mom of faith, I have counted on God to guide this parenting gig since that first positive pregnancy test results were read to me July 1, 2004.  There has been one major obstacle between God and I all these years, even long before my children existed.  It's flesh and blood.  I'm not just talking about my own. People in general. People I have had to encounter during this journey. People with whom I have tried to have relationships. People who are responsible for my kids when I am not there. People who hurt my kids. People who love my kids. People who hurt me. This past week my maturity in this area was tested repeatedly. I've come a long way from the early days of reacting to my "people" issues. As a new mom your goal is to protect your infant from all that is a threat. Whether it is as simple as germs or complex as predators, we are on guard. And let me tell you, I had my "reactive" moments with sanitary stations and ninja warrior gear as I jumped ou...

Moving on: Hauling the hurts in your U-haul

  There are many joys in motherhood just as there are hurts.  When we are in the thick of it, I think we tend to dwell in the latter.  For longer than I care to admit, the hurt has not come  from my own family. I tend to dwell on hurts from those who are no longer in our lives but choose to whisper about us in huddles. It hurts. Whether it is about one of my daughters. My husband. And sometimes even if it is about me.  It hurts. It especially hurts when it is those in the Christian community. We can "Matthew 18:15-20" until we are blue in the face. Sometimes, it just continues.... It's been about two years of hearing from others how the name of someone or all of us in my household has been dragged through the mud because of misunderstanding. Only one side of a story is often told. And that is the story that has wings.    We made attempts at reconciliation in all incidents. Our family is not perfect. We each had our moments of not handling matters grace...